fixed finally.

it was actually the door vapor barrier that was leaking. it was leaking through in a couple small spots and at the lower retaining screw hole.

I just removed the vapor barrier and replaced it with clear plastic (toyota/honda do this factory) and attached with trim adhesive, then stuck the factory torn up barrier back on as sound deadening.

in the future all I have to do is rip the plastic off and put some freshie on if I do any repairs.

went through the car wash at lunch and passed with flying colors....now to replace the front passenger window regulator