Nokia N95 Vs X3 problem solved
 

After spending 18 months using my Nokia N95 having no directory, very slow response times and only very basic call handling on my 07 UK X3 I have solved the problem..

I have just got a brand new Nokia E75. Not expecting much I bluetoothed it up as I did the N95 and it all just worked, just like the manual says, woohooo.

I thought it was the cars module not being up to date, turns out to be Nokia's (old) software being a bit crud..