I am not sure I know how to send only one contact?

I did th following on a Blackberry Bold
Options icon -> Bluetooth -> options button (next to track ball) -> transfer contacts

Using this method there does not appear to be any way to select a single contact.

thanks for the help!

There will be a way to send just one contact, as this is what the system was originally designed for. Imagine you are in a meeting with all the big cheeses.

If you wanted to send your business card to the client, you could do so over bluetooth. You wouldn't want to send your entire contacts folder!

Try selecting a single contact and chosing options.

Within the addressbook you can email or sms a single contact but there are no bluetooth options at all either on the menu or options.

Do you on a copy of the manual for the Bold?If the address book was prepared and the transfer failed then perhaps the iDrive rejected the transfer because it was not in contact receive mode. Do you own a manual for the iDrive? Can you follow the information you found on the iPhone and use that to configure the iDrive.

I'm afraid you have exhuasted my knowledge about your specifc devices.