Headlamp wiper jets?

[Cfuddy]

Ok, maybe I am an idiot but I can't activate the jets that squirt out the wiper fluid on the headlamps. I did a search and read the owner's manual and it states

"With the special wash program 6 - With every fifth actuation of clean the windsheild 5 when the vehicle 's lighting is switched on."

The best I can at interpeting this is
1) Turn on the headlamps
2) Pull the wash level towards (5) - (5 times?)
3) Push in the "S" button on the wiper lever (6)

Anyhow - I tried several combination of the above as well as everthing else I could think of and unless they are broke I feel like an idiot.

Oh I bought a used 2001 X5 3.0 with approx 53K miles. I love driving it but the jury is still out on it overall (The first trip to dealer for an oil change turned into a $3,500 adventure).

Any help would be great.

Thanks,
MC