2010 35d Front Bumper Cover where to buy?

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My front bumper cover was terribly scraped by an inept Bay Area parker.

Options:

A) Replace it, but where can I find the OEM part? Ive searched high and low.

B) Have it painted, space gray, with a few minutes of body work applied before the paint is applied.

Which would be cheaper? I estimate the front and rear bumper painting will be in the neighborhood of $1,200.00.

The passenger side wheel well trim was also scratched, but I am going to obtain some of the Y-spoke 20" wheels, so and have them offset akin to the Sport M package, so I assume they can be replaced with wider wheel well trim that I would also like to have painted.

My question is where can I find new OEM parts at, for prices below the dealer?

The entire front quarter panel of my car was covered in black paint. It's an absolute miracle it didn't penetrate the clear coat. There was a good 1 sqft. of black paint scuffed beneath the headlight. I almost died, when I saw it.

Any help as to where to purchase the parts would be greatly appreciated.