1. TSBs and SIBs are not 'actionable'. I would NEVER include them with any work order UNLESS I had issues/symptoms that matched those describe in the TSB/SIB... often it is better to start with just a straight complaint with your symptoms, see how they do- maybe ask them to "evaluate TSB xyz".
2. Any recall must be done and is linked to your VIN. Even if you bring in a recall, if BMW doesnt list it for your car it isn't getting done!
3. DEF, just make sure the work order you get back lists 6.5 gallons of DEF. I'd waiting until I got the paperwork back...if you say "that paperwork had better list 6.5 gal" then maybe it will and the DEF fill still might not be right.... just sayin'
Did you do an oil service yet, or is this the first...
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