I'm that much closer!! I went and test drove the 09 CPO I mentioned earlier and we signed all the paperwork. Only problem was that for some reason the credit bureau BMW uses and my wife's bank uses came up with completely different scores so both us and them have to figure out what exactly is going on and decide which direction to go with the financing but it's ours!! 990 below ask with the hitch installed! I think we got a great deal on it. Their price was a little over 2k under NADA and carfax told us to add 380 to the NADA figure too so with the 1200 hitch installed I feel good! Can't wait for delivery!!
Now I gotta figure out that iDrive which isn't the newer more user friendly one lol

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