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Estroil 4.8is 04-10-2006 08:33 AM

Looking for marriage proposal ideas?! maybe NYC connections?
 
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fln8tive 04-10-2006 08:42 AM

That's really cool. In my case I popped the question early in the evening before a very nice dinner....your fiancee may not eat for 24 hours afterward, so if a nice NYC dinner is planned and you want her to eat...

Have fun with the plans and congratulations in advance!

Roc3b 04-10-2006 09:42 AM

Here is an idea...."don't do it"...there I said what all your guy friends are telling you already!

IFlyX5 04-10-2006 09:42 AM

Congrats!

khitch1 04-10-2006 02:59 PM

Idea...
 
I can only think of the typical ideas for proposing in NYC. Times Square, Central Park, Empire State Building.

Or how about take her to dinner at Tavern on the Green and propose there. Tavern on the Green is a nice restaurant in Central Park. There should be a website for it. Or you could do it in a carriage ride thru Central Park on the way to the Restaurant.

Just an idea...whatever you decide good luck...:thumbup:

Technomage 04-10-2006 03:02 PM

the Pomanade in brooklyn at nite, the best view i've ever seen in my life.

LeMansX5 04-10-2006 03:04 PM

Maybe the female members here can give better idea of what she will like.

pseto 04-10-2006 03:23 PM

where ever you go, call ahead, and have them bake you a special cake with 'Will you marry me?' on it. Make sure the waiter/manager knows whats going on so they'll be no screw ups.

if they can't bake you a special cake, have them bring out some other dessert she likes on a large plate where the chef can write 'will you marry me?' on the plate around the dessert.

its sorta cheesy, but it worked for me :)

NOC 04-10-2006 03:27 PM

Congrats...
I was under the same dilema and finally stopped thinking too much about it and I just took her to a nice dinner (Top of the Hub) we both had a good time and afterwards we went to Mohegan Sun for celebrating....
Good luck w/ whatever you decide to do.

Estroil 4.8is 04-10-2006 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Roc3b
Here is an idea...."don't do it"...there I said what all your guy friends are telling you already!

I have no doubt in my mind that she's the one for me. I'm sure everyone says this but I have to give it a shot. Her parents have been together for 36 years now. So sometimes, now a days, marriages do work out.

Estroil 4.8is 04-10-2006 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Technomage
the Pomanade in brooklyn at nite, the best view i've ever seen in my life.

Just googled that. Sounds interesting! I'm concerned on how to get down there without her suspecting, mmmm? Also timing would have to be key. Weather, sunset, and crowds. I'd probably go during the week so that might help with it being crowded. Thanks I'll keep that in mind:thumbup:

fln8tive 04-10-2006 03:42 PM

With patience and humility and hard work they generally do. Get her a BMW, won't hurt.

Estroil 4.8is 04-10-2006 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by accella4.4
With patience and humility and hard work they generally do. Get her a BMW, won't hurt.

Funny you say that. She bought be a BMW X5 for my Birthday.....
Well, a 1/24 scale metal model in silver with factory 19's. Sorry guys shes taken.:)

BMW X5 04-10-2006 03:52 PM

actually there is one if by land 2 if by sea on valentines has the most proposals per year i hear its really romantic you might want to look into that

rayxi 04-10-2006 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Silver 5
Funny you say that. She bought be a BMW X5 for my Birthday.....
Well, a 1/24 scale metal model in silver with factory 19's. Sorry guys shes taken.:)

Sounds like a keeper! ;)
You've been together for a while now so you must have a shared tradition, special event, a common interest or even a running gag that you can work off of. IMO, doing something grand just doesn't cut it if there isn't some underlying shared meaning to it (other than the obvious one).

Best of luck and let us know what you decide on!

Thunder22 04-10-2006 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by khitch1
I can only think of the typical ideas for proposing in NYC. Times Square, Central Park, Empire State Building.

Or how about take her to dinner at Tavern on the Green and propose there. Tavern on the Green is a nice restaurant in Central Park. There should be a website for it. Or you could do it in a carriage ride thru Central Park on the way to the Restaurant.

Just an idea...whatever you decide good luck...:thumbup:


only if you want to get food poisoning.... there are better places

5Xwen 04-10-2006 04:40 PM

I popped the question while enjoying a bottle of wine alone on a chartered yacht at sunset in the British Virgin Islands. We both love to sail so it was special for us.

I agree with rayxi - try to do someting that involves a shared tradition or common interest.

Good luck and have fun.:thumbup:

khitch1 04-10-2006 04:45 PM

Sorry...
 
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Originally Posted by gresch
only if you want to get food poisoning.... there are better places

I asked 2 different people that I know up in Hoboken, NJ and they both recommended the same place. I was just trying to give some suggestions to help out. Not from the area so I figured I would consult some people (with fairly decent taste) for some ideas. Oh well...whatever you do will be fine...she'll just be ecstatic that you asked...you just need it to be special for ALL the times she tells the story to her friends, family, strangers, etc.

Thunder22 04-10-2006 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by khitch1
I asked 2 different people that I know up in Hoboken, NJ and they both recommended the same place. I was just trying to give some suggestions to help out. Not from the area so I figured I would consult some people (with fairly decent taste) for some ideas. Oh well...whatever you do will be fine...she'll just be ecstatic that you asked...you just need it to be special for ALL the times she tells the story to her friends, family, strangers, etc.

lol! i was only saying that because there was an article in the paper last week about a woman suing them for food poisoning, i keep forgetting that not everyone reads the NY papers... no offense intended....

Any of the "top 5" romantic restaurants listed in the NYC Zagats will be more than outstanding, and expensive to match... TotG does a lot of corporate parties and the room(s) are HUGE so it doesn't really have that romantic feel to it.

The Rainbow Room at Rockefeller Center might be a good choice, mostly because they just reopened the observation deck on the roof so dinner and a stroll out to the deck might do the trick without having to change venue from dinner to "proposal locale", or might facilitate working the proposal into either before/during/after dinner all at the same place.

And St Patrick's Cathedral is across the street if you're of the Roman Catholic persuasion and feel like stopping in to let God in on the good news after you're done :) :) :)

Thunder22 04-10-2006 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by khitch1
I asked 2 different people that I know up in Hoboken, NJ and they both recommended the same place. I was just trying to give some suggestions to help out. Not from the area so I figured I would consult some people (with fairly decent taste) for some ideas. Oh well...whatever you do will be fine...she'll just be ecstatic that you asked...you just need it to be special for ALL the times she tells the story to her friends, family, strangers, etc.

Also, don't ask people from NJ about good restaurants in NYC, some, not all, but some (no offense intended to residents of my newly adopted State) think that Olive Garden in Times Square is some good Italian :) :rofl: :rofl:

vinuneuro 04-10-2006 05:17 PM

I can't give you any advice, but congrats and hope everything goes well :thumbup: !

Michelle 04-10-2006 05:20 PM

Hmm...the whole "in a restaurant thing" is ok, but really overused, especially in movies and on tv. An idea is to go to www.theknot.com and read some of the couples' proposals. TheKnot.com is a website for couples to put their wedding info, registries, etc and there are sections they fill out with how they met and "how he popped the question."

Just make sure when you do it, its not going to sound corny when she has to repeat the story over and over again to everyone who asks, "How did he propose!" (unlike mine!)

asawadude 04-10-2006 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by gresch
only if you want to get food poisoning.... there are better places

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: I'm crackin' up here!

rayxi 04-10-2006 05:28 PM

I just noticed this in your OP.
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Originally Posted by Silver 5
Also if you have any other ideas or stories on how you asked you better half to marry you. Please feel free to share

Every year since we been going out we've gone to Victoria BC for my wife's birthday. It just happened that way for the first few years and we just decided to make it a tradition. At the time we were both into the Martini craze and we were in a restaurant that was known for their color coded Martini menu. We were in a drinking mood and ended up going through all the colors (I think it was 8 or 10). Being quite drunk and giddy I asked her to marry me and she said yes. Next morning she didn't remember anything about the proposal. I said I wasn't going to ask her twice. A week later she realized I was serious when I showed her my design for our wedding rings and told her I already contacted a custom jeweler to make them. She was quite elated because she originally thought I was pulling a gag on her.

The proposal just sort of happened without any planning. It wasn't grand or elaborate but I have no regrets about the way it happened. Once in a while I catch her with a smirk on her face and a twinkle in her eye when we go out and I suggest we order Martinis. I guess where I'm going with this is that sometimes the special part of a special occasion happens much later. Whatever you do, big or small, the way you feel about her will come through so don't sweat it!

BTW, we don't drink 10 Martinis in restaurants anymore.

rayxi 04-10-2006 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Michelle
Just make sure when you do it, its not going to sound corny when she has to repeat the story over and over again to everyone who asks, "How did he propose!" (unlike mine!)

That sort of begs the question doesn't it? Out with it!

asawadude 04-10-2006 05:39 PM

How's about a baseball game with your proposal on the Jumbotron? Red Sox, Mets, or Yankees?

What about a plane carrying a banner? Or maybe hire a sky writer (doesn't work on windy days)?

vinuneuro 04-10-2006 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by rayxi
I just noticed this in your OP.

Every year since we been going out we've gone to Victoria BC for my wife's birthday. It just happened that way for the first few years and we just decided to make it a tradition. At the time we were both into the Martini craze and we were in a restaurant that was known for their color coded Martini menu. We were in a drinking mood and ended up going through all the colors (I think it was 8 or 10). Being quite drunk and giddy I asked her to marry me and she said yes. Next morning she didn't remember anything about the proposal. I said I wasn't going to ask her twice. A week later she realized I was serious when I showed her my design for our wedding rings and told her I already contacted a custom jeweler to make them. She was quite elated because she originally thought I was pulling a gag on her.

The proposal just sort of happened without any planning. It wasn't grand or elaborate but I have no regrets about the way it happened. Once in a while I catch her with a smirk on her face and a twinkle in her eye when we go out and I suggest we order Martinis. I guess where I'm going with this is that sometimes the special part of a special occasion happens much later. Whatever you do, big or small, the way you feel about her will come through so don't sweat it!

BTW, we don't drink 10 Martinis in restaurants anymore.

Wow! Very unique :) .

motordavid 04-10-2006 06:09 PM

I'm with Ray on his idea: a shared hobby/interest/activity...

I think the rest/rooftop/"staged" deal is way too schmultzy
and B Movie-like and pretty corny.

Think about what you two really have enjoyed "doing" in your
time together and courtship, (besides That!), and maybe cook
up a more "over the top" version of that hobby/activity.

I think the sincere asking and acceptance is very personal
and doesn't really need to "be done" in some staged/psuedo-romantic
arena or some semi-public place; this is a proposal of Marriage, not
a 50th birthday party or work get together.

NYC is the finest city on the Planet, imo...so, maybe there is
some hook/connection for your situ...but, think about that
in terms of one on one, not some staged affair.
My 2Cts and Congrats!
GL,md

5Xwen 04-10-2006 06:17 PM

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Originally Posted by rayxi
We were in a drinking mood and ended up going through all the colors (I think it was 8 or 10). Being quite drunk and giddy I asked her to marry me and she said yes.
.

After drinking 10 martinis I'm surprised you didn't ask the barteneder to marry you too.:yikes:

Technomage 04-10-2006 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Silver 5
Just googled that. Sounds interesting! I'm concerned on how to get down there without her suspecting, mmmm? Also timing would have to be key. Weather, sunset, and crowds. I'd probably go during the week so that might help with it being crowded. Thanks I'll keep that in mind:thumbup:

i suggest getting dinner down the street from it, and just walk up to the promade, its not very crowded at all after 9ish. On a clear nite ur jaw will drop.

X5Jay 04-10-2006 06:35 PM

I'd have to say mD had the best "proposal" yet!

HoyaTerp 04-10-2006 06:38 PM

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Originally Posted by rayxi
Being quite drunk and giddy I asked her to marry me and she said yes.

In that case I think your proposal isn't legally binding. Keep that in mind for later. :D

Roc3b 04-10-2006 09:56 PM

Ok fine...take her to a bed n breakfast up in the mountains and in the morning before breakfast bust it out.

Thunder22 04-10-2006 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Roc3b
Ok fine...take her to a bed n breakfast up in the mountains and in the morning before breakfast bust it out.

bust what out? ;) :p

fln8tive 04-10-2006 11:36 PM

Keep in mind NYC is like an oven in July. And you'll constantly be stressing about losing the ring. And girl hair frizzes in the humidity. And what if you get a crabby waiter who just blew his audition (and god knows what else) earlier that day, dinner could suck. It's a private moment, you don't need 400 tourists at TontheG clapping.

Why not a great cabin on a lake in the Adirondacks? Propose by a firepit overlooking a lake. Keep in mind the weekend prior to your tentative date is a full moon...launch your offensive a week early. Worked for Rommel, Mao Tse Tung, and Schwartzkopf, so figger they're on to something.

Have fun and be prepared for your toilet paper consumption to go from 2 rolls a month to 1 roll a day.

rayxi 04-11-2006 01:39 AM

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Originally Posted by accella4.4
Have fun and be prepared for your toilet paper consumption to go from 2 rolls a month to 1 roll a day.

LOL, and I thought it was just my wife that was keeping Kimberly-Clark in business!

Roc3b 04-11-2006 09:24 AM

I suppose if he pieced the commander...
 
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Originally Posted by gresch
bust what out? ;) :p

He could hang it the ring off of it. "Look Honey! I did this out of love!"

Thunder22 04-11-2006 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Roc3b
He could hang it the ring off of it. "Look Honey! I did this out of love!"

hopefully she has fat fingers :)

fln8tive 04-11-2006 09:36 AM

These threads are like a squirrel caught in the center lane--you just can't guess which way they'll go...

Thunder22 04-11-2006 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by accella4.4
These threads are like a squirrel caught in the center lane--you just can't guess which way they'll go...

lol! that was funny... :)

Estroil 4.8is 04-11-2006 09:58 PM

You guys are too much, lol!

w/ekaz 04-11-2006 10:36 PM

Personally i would try to think of something that would surprise. you said you go to NYC on vacation in the summer and winter, try and think of the first time you guys went and take her to a spot she absolutely loved, you know the first time you were both there I think she would always cherish the fact that you remembered that spot after soo long and pop the question there, it doesn't matter if it's a restaurant or a certain you both stopped on a walk or something. Just a thought from a female on the board :) no matter what i'm happy for you and congrats in advance :thumbup:

BMW X5 04-12-2006 10:41 AM

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
you want good italian go to carmines you want good real cuisine go to Remi (venitian style)

Estroil 4.8is 04-12-2006 03:34 PM

Where is carmines?

Thunder22 04-12-2006 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Silver 5
Where is carmines?

There are 2. 1 in the times square area, and 1 on the upper west side. Just google Carmines NYC and you'll get their info. Carmines used to be a lot better, but they've gone downhill the last few years. They don't take reservations unless you have like 10 people and even then you'll be waiting forever as the tourists have pretty much taken over both restaurants.

IMHO, if you want AMAZING Italian in midtown, Patsy's (not patsy's pizza in the village) on 56th is the place to go. The menu is huge, the wine list is huge, the service is top notch, and the food is outstanding. You don't even need to look at the menu if you don't want to, you can just tell your waiter what you want and most of the time they'll make it for you.

http://www.patsys.com/

There are other very good italian joints in NYC, don't get me wrong, Little Italy didn't get it's name because it's shaped like a boot, the restaurants down there are also very good (monty's comes to mind). Anyway, check out patsy's, you won't be sorry.

Regards,
Gresch "i go out to eat in NYC way too often"

sinX5 04-12-2006 05:03 PM

Why did you wait so long? Just ask her right now and that's it. Sooner you do it, you'll feel much, much better. Proposal does not have to be fake, and "special" beacuse life is not, make every day off your life the best day of your life.

Congrats!


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