I recently observed two approaches to the same issue on the following thread:
Turn down your porn!

A new member has been posting a lot and some people think its a bit over the top.

Here's how two member dealt with the issue:

1) so how the hell is that even an opinion.. it's fucking post whoring. stop.
ok.. so you're dumber than you sound.

2)OK, how to say this gently....

My point here is that if you treat another person with a reasonable degree of respect you will most likely get a better result.

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