Can't find BT microphone wire in 2006 3.0i

[icarus256]

I just installed the factory BT ULF module & antenna in my 2006, everything follows spec EXCEPT when I remove the map lights and mic cover in the overhead, there is supposed to be a three wire connector for the mic (84 31 6 938 762) but instead there is an eight wire that I assume is for assist. I took all of the controls out but there is no other wire that I can find - does anyone know if 2006 required an adapter for it? Or better yet, does anyone have a wire diagram of the 8 pin, I can just push the posts out and connect them to the mic...