I've followed numerous instructions on this board on pairing. I can't seem to ever get the "Pairing" or "Active Phone" display on my MID or cluster.

I went as far as opening the audio compartment, I believe I have a BT antenna, which is mounted on the top of the rack that contains the DVD for the nav. I also believe I have a device thats referred to as the TCU or the ULF. But I'm not sure which unit I have, this was seen after removing (unscrewing) teh black cover just below to the right of the rack. This silver device is mounted sideways on the rack, has a big plug on one end what looks like a UHF connector on the other.

I'm at a loss, I'm really not sure whats going on or how to get this working.

Any help would be appreciated.