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Old 08-30-2006, 05:33 PM
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That's great but unfortunately 126 of those kids will have parents who take the kid's side and blame the school for persecuting their kids. Some might even pull the R card. They'll expend such enormous energy being angry with and blaming the school but never stop to think that maybe, just maybe, their kids should not be jaw jacking on their cellphone during school and they shouldn't dress like they're auditioning for a rap video at school. Rant off.

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Its unfortunate parents will blame the school system, and guess who bought the clothes. Parents know what's appropriate.
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Actually the answer is parents do not teach children truth regarding which moral compass to follow. Proper training helps young people understand the proper place for sex, appreciation for the human body and respect for their fellow man. The reason why so much effort is made to censor playboy magazines and the like which is hidden well behind the counter, why alcohol is dissallowed until 21, and smoking until 18 is because parents are too lazy to make the needed effort to raise morally respectable young people. They don't do it because the are not morally respectable themselves. Now if you follow that logic you can see why rules are put in place for those children who have ignorant parents.


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The point wasnt that you or I mind looking, I dont mind looking I could care less if they didnt wear a bra and/or thong and/or bikini top/bottom but at 14 15 16 its just plain out wrong. I dont care if they watch porn or at least nudity because in most industrial and modern countries its not a taboo, Mulin Rouge for example allows kids 6+ to see the show where the girls wear no tops and thongs but that society is not so sex hungry. You can walk down the street and look at pictures of girls who perform at strip clubs there and they are pretty graphic where as here playboy magazines and the likes are hidden well behind the counter, alcohol is dissallowed until 21, smoking until 18, but ask yourself WHY? and the answer shall be that we allowed kids to blow this out of proportion due to lack of respect, lack of education and just plain lack of class.
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I wish i could agree. But on any give day you can ask a parent and some of them really believe what their child is wearing is fine. But take a look at the parent. Is there any real wonder why they feel that way??

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guess who bought the clothes. Parents know what's appropriate.
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Its unfortunate parents will blame the school system, and guess who bought the clothes. Parents know what's appropriate.
back to my point of it all starts with parents and if they dont know how to raise their children someone has to do it for them
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Actually the answer is parents do not teach children truth regarding which moral compass to follow. Proper training helps young people understand the proper place for sex, appreciation for the human body and respect for their fellow man. The reason why so much effort is made to censor playboy magazines and the like which is hidden well behind the counter, why alcohol is dissallowed until 21, and smoking until 18 is because parents are too lazy to make the needed effort to raise morally respectable young people. They don't do it because the are not morally respectable themselves. Now if you follow that logic you can see why rules are put in place for those children who have ignorant parents.
Barry my point exactly maybe i didnt state it properly but i absolutely agree with you. it starts with parents and if they dont know how to raise kids well someone has to. I wasnt born here and was staying at home alone starting about 5yrs old. here in the US you lose your child for that stunt, one of my parents friends knew someone whose kid called 911 and said she was home alone, guess what that got the parents. parents now a days are kids themselves thats the problem.
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First off, Blondboisd is 21...just barely out of his teenage years. His reasoning makes sense to teenagers not to parents. We should forget and forgive what he says, my eldest son is turning 20. As a parent of 4 teenage children 19,17,15,12 I know what it takes to guide your children to the right paths even though I have hard times doing so. As for teenage boys, I am sure they will survive the peer pressure in their teenage years as they grow up. Just like other parents, I am worried more for my 12 year-old daughter who is more vulnerable to the peer pressure. Anyway, all 4 of them have cellphones and I wish the school they attend require uniforms. Giving kids cellphones is sometimes unneccessary but then I know I will have a hold of them whenever I want and sometimes it happens that I call them right where it needed most. If you know what I mean. Applause to the parents in this forum.
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First off, Blondboisd is 21...just barely out of his teenage years. His reasoning makes sense to teenagers not to parents. We should forget and forgive what he says, my eldest son is turning 20. As a parent of 4 teenage children 19,17,15,12 I know what it takes to guide your children to the right paths even though I have hard times doing so. As for teenage boys, I am sure they will survive the peer pressure in their teenage years as they grow up. Just like other parents, I am worried more for my 12 year-old daughter who is more vulnerable to the peer pressure. Anyway, all 4 of them have cellphones and I wish the school they attend require uniforms. Giving kids cellphones is sometimes unneccessary but then I know I will have a hold of them whenever I want and sometimes it happens that I call them right where it needed most. If you know what I mean. Applause to the parents in this forum.
I'm 24 so you can say just out of my teenage years as well and what he says is complete non-sence
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back to my point of it all starts with parents and if they dont know how to raise their children someone has to do it for them

Yes I have a teenager and don't need the school to set the rules for dress.
People that need the school to do things like that have failed or are failing as a parents.
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I am worried more for my 12 year-old daughter who is more vulnerable to the peer pressure.
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People that need the school to do things like that have failed or are failing as a parents.
Very true, which is exactly why the school needs to have the dress code. There are many parents that aren't holding up their end of the responsibility. You can't force them to raise their kids differently, thus you need the rules.
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