Not to beat a dead horse...but since the question was asked and only partially answered...I'll ask one more time just in case the problem is something really simple...have you pressed button #1 to see if all the interior lights come back on?

Im afraid why do I have to put the earplugs? Will anything happen to the car?

Qsilver, i tried but they didnt work

OMG JUST DO IT

Why the hell would I suggest something that would damage the car?

Im sorry if i bothered you, but still there is no such thing as fuse 41 in the back fuse box, if you see on the internet back fuse box of bmw x5 2003 you will not see this number

http://www.xoutpost.com/attachments/...-fuseboard.jpg

Fuse 41. If that doesn't work try remove and reinstall these fuses for interior lights:

fuse 14
fuse 27
fuse 25
fuse 83
fuse 42
fuse 36
fuse 33

You're not bothering me but if I didnt have the same problem as you I wouldn't sound so annoyed. I really hope you aren't lookin in the trunk fuses, this is the GLOVEBOX fuse box

Check the fuse box in the glove box, not the back of the car. Its hidden by an access panel up and to the back of the glove box.

Thank you guys for helping me out, but as I'm a beginner how do I read the fuse box digram and there is some places that they don't even have fuses in them do I count those also?

Yes the spots are the same whether there is a fuse in there or not. so just go by where the fuse should be on the diagram and count the spaces

Thank you so much you just solved my problem thanks alot i have been going to too many mechanics and they didnt know what is the problem but thank you so much