Mini-Rant: What has happened to our site?

[Superhiro]

Damn, and I'd been dying to use LMGTFY on somebody here

Oh well

Also, just my $0.02. I do use the search button but I also like to ask as well. Many times it's better to actually talk to somebody that had the issue or that can provide information than just reading an old thread.

Thanks for posting that Michelle, my last post for help (posted after I did a search) got all of 0 responses....

[TwinsPoppa]

Originally Posted by Superhiro

Damn, and I'd been dying to use LMGTFY on somebody here

Oh well

Also, just my $0.02. I do use the search button but I also like to ask as well. Many times it's better to actually talk to somebody that had the issue or that can provide information than just reading an old thread.

Thanks for posting that Michelle, my last post for help (posted after I did a search) got all of 0 responses....

I'll help ya! Though you might not like the answers.

[x5GuyInLA]

Great reminder Michelle! I think that's why I didn't visit nor post as often as I did before; the atmosphere just got a bit hostile and negative. I remember when I stumbled across this forum after I got my X5 and it was fun to visit and see what was going on with other X5ers. Everyone was friendly with each other even if we didn't share the same point of view. Now it seems like there are quite a few "my sh*t don't stink, but yours does" posts whenever there is a disagreement. I know when membership grows, a forum changes. Ideally for the better and hopefully your thread will remind people that this is a place for friendships, not to antagonize someone b/c they're Republican or Democrat, a PC or a Mac, or even if they drive American or Japanese. Voice your opinion, but there's no need to belittle someone who doesn't share your opinion. I came across this post late and as I look through who has posted in this thread, I couldn't help but notice that some of the more vocal and opinionated members haven't said anything here. Just found that curious.

[HuskerX5]

I totally agree with the intent of this thread. Nothing good can come from insulting/belittling anyone on this group, let alone new members. If they are posting in the "Off Topic" area...then they get what's coming as it is clearly known what goes on in there, no matter what the group. In my opinion, if someone posts within the "On Topic" area and is jumped on, as described in many of the previous posts, then there is a real problem. Certainly if there is a trend of "abuse" occurring by the same few members, no matter how long they have been here, the moderators should step in and discuss it offline with them. I have had to do this as a moderator myself more than once. Not doing anything will only hurt the integrity of the entire group in the end.

I think this General post to all members is a great way to let those people in question, and they know who they are, that others are watching and don't, perhaps, appreciate it. Not starting anything here, but it seems that most cyberspace "bullies" are not so rude in the real world but here can hide behind the virtual anonymity of the keyboard. Just my observations.....

Overall, this is a great group and I have learned a great deal here and have not been a "victim" of any hostility here at all. Then again, I know how to use the search feature.....

[rh71]

I've been on a huge off-topic forum since 2001 which gets replies to threads within 30 seconds of it being posted. There are numerous people from all walks of life and all types of personalities. If you're not defensive-minded making a post, you're in some trouble as some will surely jump on you.

I come to X5World expecting the exact opposite. I've only been here a year and the majority of responders and their attitude has always been positive. I hope it stays this way as it is a welcomed change. I have actually mentioned there how there are nicer boards to visit because of this place.

[NjRx7T2]

Well said M..!

I myself is still considered a newbie here but I'm staying for the friendships..

And as for those people who get aggravated when someone repeats a question/topic, please do move on and nevermind the flamming..

[bankerboyz]

Spot on Michelle.

[Isambard]

Hi Michelle, I'm a relatively-speaking newbie to this forum myself, and so far have found there to be an abundance of information available. Not only from the guys/gals' responses but in the database as a whole via the search facility.

ALL the points you have made are completey valid, and judging by the others' responses to your 'mini-rant' this is echoed wholeheartedly by the forum members.

Although I always thank the guys/gals' who have helped in ANY amount I would like to take this opportunity to thank them again, and hope that maybe the info I pick up along the way during my ownership of my X5, along with this forum membership, I can share with others (new and 'old' members) will be able to help them as it has helped me.

Once again, thanks for bringing this particular topic of great interest to all our attentions. I personally feel that it needed to be said, as I too have experienced one or two of the 'do a search' brigade. Which I already had, but my particular interest was not contained in any of the areas covered, hence me posting the question...It was the same, but different if you know what I mean... Sorry, I was even sending myself to sleep there...!

Anyhoo, good job Michelle.

[tijanaw]

Well said M!

[msammy]

OK, is it me or am I imagining things. Why is X5World now called xoutpost.com???